I am a planner. I like to be able to make everyone's life run smoothly. I don't want them to have to worry. I have always been there to fix things. I am the one with many lists, I make the arrangements, and I am so capable that I wonder sometimes if I tend to pooh pooh an idea that I haven't thought of myself. Hmm. Do I? I have to admit I do. Hubby will ask if I want to go to the movies and if I am not in the mood, I say no. Basketball game, are you kidding me?? Eat at Denny's instead of the Cracker Barrel, what are you crazy?....LOL So, I am going to try and be a little more spontaneous and let others make some decisions. I am yielding my control and going to start trying some new things. As of this date, I have gone to see Mission Impossible and last night I took in a Griz Basketball game (still did not care for the sport, but the snacks and the jazz band were great!) So I am trying. Next up, letting my kids go about their lives without me always telling them to be careful. This one will be the hardest.